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Our celebrity agony aunt, Vanessa Feltz, tackles your problems with her usual wit, wisdom and humour

What happens when sexual intimacy is no longer a part of your marriage? Here, one woman reflects on her decision to give up sex for good – and how it’s deepened her bond with her husband

Help! Will men judge me in the bedroom? Q Dating again after divorce, I’ve had a few lovely dates that led nowhere. But I know that pretty soon I’ll meet a man I want to have sex with, and I’m worried

Our love life was non-existent, I made a big change

Our Antonella tells it how it is

I can’t choose between two different men! Q I have casual sex with two male friends, and they don’t know about each other. Problem is, both of them assume they’re invited to my big birthday party. Obv