Our celebrity agony aunt, Vanessa Feltz, tackles your problems with her usual wit, wisdom and humour

Q My fiancé is wonderful, the sex is amazing and we kiss and cuddle lots indoors. But when we’re out, he never even touches me – he says he doesn’t want other people watching us make out. I’ve tried s

An open relationship once meant liberating yourself from the mundanity of a traditional set-up. Then Lily Allen released West End Girl and the world starting gossiping about the ultimate cautionary tale of using non-monogamy to save a domestic set-up. As taking lovers becomes tactical, WH explores if fortysomething women are playing with their mental health as they play around with the rules

Q Our daughter and her boyfriend from university came to stay. My husband caught him coming out of her bedroom, there was a row and they left. My husband says he was right to ‘uphold standards’. I thi

Counsellor Kate Medlin answers your personal, sexual and emotional problems

Q For ages, my partner and I were close friends – then one night we had a lovely snog. We’ve taken it slowly, and for ages it felt good. But last weekend, we finally got to the bedroom, he took his cl