Our Antonella tells it how it is
Scared of his anger
Q I’m really confused about my four-month relationship with this man.
At first he made me feel valued but it turns out he has an angry streak.
His temper is never directed at me but it rears its head when he’s driving or discussing work or politics.
I told him I didn’t like this side of him and he promised me that he would change.
But he still expresses his anger, particularly about work, which is making our conversations difficult.
Is it time for me to move on and find someone less volatile?
A I think in four months you’ve seen enough of his personality to know that it isn’t something you want in a partner, love.
He might swear to change but if he hasn’t by now, he probably never will – and you have every right to walk away.
Trust your gut here, petal.
Creepy guy won’t back off
Q I met this guy about a decade ago when I was working as a waitress.
Nothing ever happened between us but every so often he’ll message me about then.
Telling me what I was wearing, asking if I had underwear on.
It’s so creepy, annoying – plus he has a wife and kids now!
Do I tell his wife what he’s saying to me? I feel like I’d want to know if it was me.
A Block this man straight away, sweetheart. Do not give him access to your number or social media. He’s being disrespectful and downright pervy.
Don’t tell his wife – if she doesn’t know she’s married to a dirty old man, it’s not your job to break it to her.
Simply remove yourself from his life.
You don’t need to have anything to do with him at all.
His kids are driving me nuts
Q I’ve been with my boyfriend for 12 years.
Initially things were good with us but then his adult kids moved back in and our dynamic changed.
He treats them like babies and I think his daughter is manipulative. But when I told him this, he said I was jealous and insecure.
I’ve now moved out and he told
