Counsellor Kate Medlin answers your personal, sexual and emotional problems

When Helen Cleaver, 58, said yes to marrying the love of her life, heartbreak followed. But decades later, fate led her down the aisle…

Q My fiancé is wonderful, the sex is amazing and we kiss and cuddle lots indoors. But when we’re out, he never even touches me – he says he doesn’t want other people watching us make out. I’ve tried s

Our celebrity agony aunt, Vanessa Feltz, tackles your problems with her usual wit, wisdom and humour

An open relationship once meant liberating yourself from the mundanity of a traditional set-up. Then Lily Allen released West End Girl and the world starting gossiping about the ultimate cautionary tale of using non-monogamy to save a domestic set-up. As taking lovers becomes tactical, WH explores if fortysomething women are playing with their mental health as they play around with the rules

Q Our daughter and her boyfriend from university came to stay. My husband caught him coming out of her bedroom, there was a row and they left. My husband says he was right to ‘uphold standards’. I thi