Our Antonella tells it how it is
We were on a break
Q My partner and I took a break from our relationship a few months ago.
During the break he slept with two other people.
Eventually we got back together, but I’ve been struggling to trust him.
I’m hurt and angry that he’s slept with other people. But I love him.
What should I do?
A If you’d agreed neither of you would see anyone else, then yes, he’s obviously broken your trust.
But if there were no rules, then he hasn’t cheated, as you were no longer together.
Even then, it doesn’t bode well that he used your time apart to bed-hop.
At the end of the day, only you can decide if you can move past this, flower. But I have to say, it doesn’t sound promising.
Secret lover at work
Q I started sleeping with a guy from work a while back.
At first, we agreed that we didn’t want anything serious, just fun.
But now we’ve both admitted to falling for each other, and we spend a lot of time together.
Only, he doesn’t want to go public with the relationship.
Is he leading me on?
A You need to get to the bottom of why you’re being kept a secret.
Is he cheating on another partner with you? Does he have low self-esteem?
Perhaps he’s just not sure of his feelings, or he’s confused. But, either way, you need to have an honest chat, love. You need to agree on what you expect from each other. Things can’t carry on like this.
Hen party dilemma
Q A few years ago I made a mistake by sleeping with a man who had a girlfriend.
I insisted he tell her, and she chose to stay with him.
Now I’ve been invited to his brother’s wedding. I’m even goi
