Our Antonella tells it how it is
My parents hate my telly dream
Q I really want to apply to a well-known reality TV show but my parents are mortified by the idea.
I think it’s just a bit of fun and could even earn me a bit of extra money.
How can I persuade them to support me in this?
I don’t want their disapproval but I also don’t want to miss out on this opportunity.
A There are always shows and networks looking for the next reality TV star. If you feel like you’ve got something to offer then go for it!
So many people apply, it might not come to anything, but there’s no reason not to throw your hat into the ring.
And don’t fret about your folks. The people who love you will support you no matter what, even if they don’t really ‘get’ it.
Are they taking advantage?
Q I’ve worked at my job for five years and I’ve been given more and more responsibilities.
I love what I do but all the extra work hasn’t come with a new title or pay increase.
I feel like they are taking advantage. But how do I ask for more cash?
I don’t want to leave but I’m worried I’m underselling myself.
Please help!
Mum’s playing favourites
A No matter where you work you can always ask about salary increases.
Do a little research into salary trends in your field and see if you’re on the right track.
State your case to your boss but also be ready to compromise.
They might not offer a raise straight away but could put a plan in place.
Don’t be afraid to look elsewhere if they refuse, love. You deserve to earn your worth!
Mum’s playing
Q My mum favours my brother and it drives me up the wall. He’s never had to lift a finger around the house, or cook a meal, whereas I am always expected to help out.
I feel like I’m stuck in the 1950s. I’ve tried not doing the housework but it just causes rows.
I can’t afford to move out just yet and I need this to stop.
A Try not to hold this against yo
