On the record

I thought I’d never tell a soul what happened in that graveyard

Though he was beloved by everyone, Elina Fragola, 65, learned that her husband had a dark side

My own mum despised me from the moment I was born

The first time I said those words, I wasn’t believed. Almost 30 years on, I tried again

I asked him about dodgy texts, then my life changed forever

Each month a reader writes to a loved one in the afterlife and Mandy Masters tunes in to share their reply. This month Charlie Parker-Griffiths writes to her grandad, Nick