Counsellor Kate Medlin answers your personal, sexual and emotional problems

When Helen Cleaver, 58, said yes to marrying the love of her life, heartbreak followed. But decades later, fate led her down the aisle…

IT’S perfect,” I said. “Just think of all the time I’ll save on commuting. I’ll even be able to come home for lunch if I want to.” Mum didn’t look convinced. Of course, she was pleased that I’d found

Q Our daughter and her boyfriend from university came to stay. My husband caught him coming out of her bedroom, there was a row and they left. My husband says he was right to ‘uphold standards’. I thi

An open relationship once meant liberating yourself from the mundanity of a traditional set-up. Then Lily Allen released West End Girl and the world starting gossiping about the ultimate cautionary tale of using non-monogamy to save a domestic set-up. As taking lovers becomes tactical, WH explores if fortysomething women are playing with their mental health as they play around with the rules

You know the old saying ‘You think you know someone’? After many years of happy marriage, I thought I knew all there was to know about my husband Clive. That was until he shattered my faith, not only