It’s a whole thing
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When I tell you that I’ve been on a year-long odyssey, what I mean is that I’ve ordered literally dozens and dozens of fancy, plus-size dresses online, banged my head against what feels like every single changing-room wall out there and spent countless hours researching options for myself, my mum and my friends – for my own wedding and the 10 weddings I’ve attended in the past two years alone.
I mean, seriously, formal wear is hard enough when you have to factor in the weather, the event’s setting and specific dress codes (or lack thereof). But it’s beyond frustrating when you’re a size 18 or higher. What you’ll typically find is dowdy. Or Strictly Come Dancing-level sparkly with cutouts and high slits that are far from conducive to any shapewear, bras or knickers (attempting to go commando can get complicated with D+ cups and thigh chafe to strategise around).
I give you: full glam, no drama. Finally
So where exactly is the occasion wear that’s decidedly not terrible? Friends, after exhaustive research and with help from a few experts, I’m happy to report that it’s right here. Behold, your new blueprint for plus-size shopping – sans the drama.
1 Look at the (right) size chart
Get measurements from the actual designer instead of the retailer, says Susan Ruddie Spring, founder of NYC alterations specialist The Wedding Dresser. Numbers just aren’t consistent across brands. If you’re unsure, go bigger. ‘You can always get something taken in, but there’s only so much room to take something out,’ says bridal stylist Gabrielle Hurwitz.
2 Buy in threes
After attempting to wriggle into many (allegedly) size 18 and 20 gowns that are actually cut like 12s and 14s, I now try up to three different sizes at a time. Formal dresses often involve non-stretch materials, taut waistbands, hidden zipper closures and tighter linings. Just remember to check return policies before buying – unless you want to keep the lot.
3 Go custom
Sustainable labels such as We Are Kin and Molby The Label offer bespoke, statement pieces that are made to order via standard sizing charts or custom measurements, meaning no shape or size is off limits and your look is truly customised. Investing in a piece like this is worth the higher price when it perfectly fits the unique shape of your body.
More fierce options like this please, fashion industry
