‘my best sex ever was an exercise in delayed gratification’

Danielle Holmes, 38, runs an IT business with her husband, Kyle, 33. They live in Wiltshire with their two children, aged 13 and 12. I’m generally a very chilled-out person, so when I start getting an

The last time erotica had a moment, Fifty Shades turned bondage into water cooler chat. Now, the genre’s back – only this time, the safe words are spells. But while fans of ‘romantasy’ say the sex is out of this world, what does our collective appetite for so-called ‘faerie smut’ say about the sex we’re really having...or not?

Whether you’re divorced or out of a long-term relationship and want to start dating again, or simply want to spice things up this summer, sex can feel daunting later in life. Yes, your body, stamina a

Before the invention of networking, people simply met, social-climbed or licked arse. Now it’s more hygienic. Now we have networking conferences in Blackpool. I don’t know which is more depressing. I

From Catherine Zeta Jones and Michael Douglas, Courteney Cox and Johnny McDaid, to Leo DiCaprio and his latest squeeze, age-gap relationships are frequently the butt of many jokes. If the man is older

More women in their 40s are saying yes to sex clubs. Ellie Fennell joins the party