CONNECTIONS
Psychic TJ Higgs explains how to connect at Christmas with loved ones who have passed
Christmas is a time of joy, love and togetherness, when families come together to celebrate, exchange gifts and create lasting memories.
However, when loved ones pass away and are unable to be with you during this special time of year, it can feel empty. Even more so if your loss is recent and this is your first Christmas without them.
Their physical absence can make the trimmings of Christmas all seem rather pointless and tacky.
The festive season is an important time, and when you feel such a loss, it seems as if Christmas will never be the same again.
We can be inclined to think: Why bother?
But do consider this — did your loved one love Christmas? How would they want you to feel at this time of year?
If they loved Christmas, then one of the most powerful things you can do is to make a conscious decision to feel that joy, even if it’s difficult.
In doing so, you honour them and their love of this time of year.
The festive season doesn’t mean you can’t still feel their presence and keep them close to you in spirit.
Embrace the memories
One of the most powerful ways to bring your family close at Christmas is by cherishing their memories. Take some time to reminisce about past Christmases spent together.
Share stories, look through old photos and watch videos, so your loved ones become part of this year’s story, and recall the laughter and joy that filled the room.
Share these memories and stories with younger members of the family too, so they feel a connection with their family members on the other side of life.
By doing so, you are keeping their spirit alive and creating a sense of connection that transcends physical distance.
Remember their traditions
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