Each month, world-renowned medium Sandrea Mosses connects a reader with a loved one in Spirit, to discover what their life is like on the other side. Elaine McKean asked her to contact her dad Joe…
Dear Elaine,
It is true there was a lot of cruelty, pain and harsh words said in the family. I won’t talk about that now. That is not to say I don’t have an opinion on this, I do — but I don’t wish to drag out the hardship these events caused.
How differently we see life when we are over here. And you know me, all I wanted was for everyone to get on.
I am at peace, and of course I am with your mother. There is no one else I would wish to be with. It took a little while to get used to being together, she looked so young and glamorous, and I felt so old. Mum just laughed and then ignored me!
But in the world of Spirit, once we settle down and understand the rules, everything changes. That is to say, I had to understand that there are no rules — the only limitations are our perceptions of how things should be.
So, with the help of my guide Séamus, the old, haggard me slowly faded away and I turned into a handsome prince. Well, that’s what your mother tells me, at least!
Earth is so heavy, solid and unmoving. Once a soul learns to leave the earth person behind and see no limitations, it is so very, very different here. You can literally be what you want to be and where you wish to be.
Your surroundings can change to reflect how you are feeling. In a moment you can move from a bustling, friendly town square to the top of the highest mountain. No regrets and no worries that your departure has upset someone. It is just as it is, and there is total acceptance.
It is this understanding and acceptance that ensures there is harmony everywhere. Everybody understands where you are at. The only emotion we experience is different shades of love. When anyone can see and judge life through their heart, all the anger and hurt dissolves away.
It is so very, very different here
I now truly understand how a feeling of hurt begins and grows. It starts off as a small, dark speck of thread. As the hurt is shared with others, more hurt is generated and added to this speck, so the dark thread begins to grow in length and depth, and it connects all those involved through their hearts.
It begins to generate a life of its own, and becomes self-perpetuating, binding people together in hate, instead of love, yet equally as strong.
The only way a person can leave this situation is to forgive and forget. These two little actions enable an individual to disengage, to dissolve the threads of heartache and pain from their hearts and to move on with their lives, leaving the pain behind.
Some may say ‘I will never forgive’, but, my dears, until you do, you will never be fre
