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SETTLING INTO A NEW SCHOOL

Our family is moving to the south of France this summer. How can I help my children integrate into their new school?

GINA BIANCHI of ICS Côte d’Azur Bilingual School, Valbonne, responds (isn-nice.com):

Integrating children into a new school, especially in a new country, can come with its fair share of challenges. Every family is different, but it’s perfectly normal for you, and your child or children, to feel nervous and unsure about starting in a new place. If you add in learning a new language too, it can feel like a daunting task. However, with patience, preparation, and support, it can be an exciting and rewarding adventure for both you and your family.

First and foremost, I suggest beginning to learn French as soon as you’ve made your decision. The most effective method is through an inperson or online tutor, who will encourage your child to speak and interact. However, apps like Duolingo and Rosetta Stone are also excellent for building vocabulary and practicing pronunciation in a low-pressure environment. Next, you can contact local schools in the area you are moving to and request to speak with the director and ask all your questions.

If language is a barrier, use a translation app to email your questions. Inquire about the possibility of visiting the school and ask if it would be permissible to take photos (with no children present) so your family can review them together later, helping the school environment feel more familiar.

You can also ask if the school has a buddy system for orientation week; this can help your child acclimate to their new surroundings and make connections with fellow students.

Once you've selected your school, explore any pre-enrollment activities available for your children to engage in. For instance, if you’re starting in September, consider holiday camps offering enjoyable activities such as sports, arts, or local excursions. These camps are often hands-on, minimising language barriers and providing a welcoming environment for children to immerse themselves in.

This applies to parents as well! Request to be connected with the school’s Parent-Teacher Association (PTA) to stay informed about upcoming events. If you're feeling apprehensive about your French proficiency, consider searching social media for local expat groups where you can inquire about meetups and connect with others in a similar situation.

Finally, once your children have commenced school, actively engage in their learning journey. If the school shares the curriculum, a newsletter, or has active social media pages, take time to discuss them around the dinner table and ask insightful questions. Instead of generic enquiries like “How was school?” try using targeted questions such as “Who did you play with t