Bring white men into the conversation

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A very powerful group has been mostly missing from discussions about diversity, equity and inclusion. That can change

WITHIN TODAY’S DIVERSITY, equity, and inclusion efforts, white men are often absent from the conversation. In one survey, 68 percent of white men said they didn’t feel part of DEI efforts and conversations. Some felt they were seen as the problem.

Others (64 percent) felt they didn’t have the ability to speak candidly in conversations with colleagues from marginalized groups.

But given the wide representation of white men in positions of power in both the public and private sectors, we need to meaningfully engage them in the conversation to make real change. For example, of the 533 executive officers among the S&P 100, 70 percent are white men. In the public sector, despite representing only 30 percent of the population, white men hold 62 percent of elected offices.

The group holding some of the greatest power to influence change are the ones most absent from the conversation about making it. Both our firsthand observations and the social sciences have shown us that when it comes to influencing white men to participate in conversations about racial equity and creating a more equitable world, a powerful place to begin is with their own experience of belonging.

Engaging White Men

We each come to this conversation from different perspectives. I (Zoe) as a Black scholar, researcher and activist at Virginia State University, a historically Black University (HBCU). And I (Ron) as a white man working to understand how the privileges I have enjoyed simply because of my skin color and gender have led to the disadvantages others have suffered.

I (Zoe) never thought I would be doing this work with white men. As a Black woman activist-scholar, I have studied, researched and authored work on oppression in my own silo, with my own people. And while I thought I had mastered a cultural understanding of how oppression works, I found myself completely outside my comfort zone when exploring this work from the perspective of white men.

Both of us have invested a great deal of time in understanding the excessive ways people of color experience exclusion, microaggressions, withheld opportunities and harm. Particularly, we’ve been curious about the disproportionate role white men (often unwittingly) have played in perpetuating the unlevel playing field of privilege, and the outsized role they could play in creating a more equitable world. Three years ago, our paths came together as we’d both become part of a significant social experiment and community, now called White Men for Racial Justice (WMRJ)—Ron as a member of the community and Zoe as one of its equity advisors, along with Taylor Paul.

BELONGING Having real conversations about difficult issues can

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