Q My first boyfriend and I met at school and it was a romantic dream. We didn’t quite have sex, yet what we did was amazingly arousing and passionate. We parted as friends when we went to college and

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Q My partner and I love each other very much and our sex life is great. But it annoys us that we always do the same things, in the same way, on the same night – Sunday, when we’ve recovered from our e

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Counsellor Kate Medlin answers your personal, sexual and emotional problems

Q My marriage was wonderful. It lasted over 25 years, and I never felt insecure. Since my husband died, I’ve had several relationships which haven’t lasted. I hold back from involvement, feel unsure a