Author and Guardian columnist Rhiannon Lucy Cosslett picks out the reads that will help get your pulse racing

(without having to try too hard)

Q For ages, my partner and I were close friends – then one night we had a lovely snog. We’ve taken it slowly, and for ages it felt good. But last weekend, we finally got to the bedroom, he took his cl

Q My fiancé is wonderful, the sex is amazing and we kiss and cuddle lots indoors. But when we’re out, he never even touches me – he says he doesn’t want other people watching us make out. I’ve tried s

Let’s face it, midlife has never traditionally been seen as a sexy time – for women, anyway. Concerns about ageing, caring for kids or older parents, and perimenopause don’t exactly get you in the moo

‘In limerence, tiny and ambiguous signals can dictate ...