LET COUNSELLOR KEREN LIGHTEN YOUR LOAD

Q‘I’m 61 and have just moved from London to Scotland to start a new life. The scenery is breathtaking but my social life… less so. I’ve always been “the nice one” – helpful, upbeat, unfailingly polite

Counsellor Kate Medlin answers your personal, sexual and emotional problems

THAT FEELING OF BEING ON THE OUTSIDE, EVEN WHEN YOU’RE WITH EVERYONE? YOU’RE NOT IMAGINING IT – AND IT CAN CHANGE. HERE’S HOW TO GET THE FEELING OF CONNECTION BACK

PUSH YOUR BUTTONS?

Q My partner is my best friend, but we're rushing towards a commitment I'm not sure about. The problem is, I don't feel physically attracted to him, so our sex life is more or less non-existent. We're