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Q We’re celebrating our 30th wedding anniversary next month and, although we don’t make love that often, we’re very happy. But my guest list makes me realise how many of my friends are now in new rela

Q For the past two years, my colleague has been having an affair and I’m getting more and more uncomfortable about it. She and her husband aren’t happy, but I don’t think her playing away is going to

Q‘My husband is five years older than me and he has announced he is going to retire later this year, a lot earlier than planned. I am really worried about this. I love my husband but after 30 years to

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