Is it ok to fantasise about sex with someone else?

Q My partner and I love each other very much and our sex life is great. But it annoys us that we always do the same things, in the same way, on the same night – Sunday, when we’ve recovered from our e

Q My first boyfriend and I met at school and it was a romantic dream. We didn’t quite have sex, yet what we did was amazingly arousing and passionate. We parted as friends when we went to college and

Telepathic dirty talk not included, sadly

WHETHER YOU’RE DATING OR DECADES IN, ATTRACTION ISN’T ABOUT LOOKS – IT’S PRESENCE, CHEMISTRY AND HOW YOU MAKE SOMEONE FEEL

Q My marriage was wonderful. It lasted over 25 years, and I never felt insecure. Since my husband died, I’ve had several relationships which haven’t lasted. I hold back from involvement, feel unsure a

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