The experts

Help! Will men judge me in the bedroom? Q Dating again after divorce, I’ve had a few lovely dates that led nowhere. But I know that pretty soon I’ll meet a man I want to have sex with, and I’m worried

Q My husband and I have moved out of the city to a small village. On our first weekend, all the neighbours popped round and it seems that they have regular get-togethers. How can I say we’re not inter

I can’t choose between two different men! Q I have casual sex with two male friends, and they don’t know about each other. Problem is, both of them assume they’re invited to my big birthday party. Obv

Counsellor Kate Medlin answers your personal, sexual and emotional problems

Q I’m a man worried about my female partner. We’ve been together two years and, until four months ago, sex was great, but now she’s gone off it completely. We talked about it, and she revealed that sh

Q Can you save on package holidays by booking them at the last minute? A Potentially. You may find prices drop the closer you get to the departure date, although the later you leave it, the more flexi