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Q We’re celebrating our 30th wedding anniversary next month and, although we don’t make love that often, we’re very happy. But my guest list makes me realise how many of my friends are now in new rela

Q For the past two years, my colleague has been having an affair and I’m getting more and more uncomfortable about it. She and her husband aren’t happy, but I don’t think her playing away is going to

Q My partner has never been able to last long in bed but, recently, it’s become even worse and now he’s hardly able to hold back from orgasm at all. We’ve talked about it – I’m hugely sympathetic – bu

Q My partner and I are coming up to our 10th anniversary and we’re great together. But very occasionally he’s not in the mood for sex – and then I can’t control the hurt I feel. So far, I’ve been able

Help! Intimate toys leave me confused Q I’m loving how sexual play has changed since I was young. And browsing the sex catalogues, I’m enjoying all the toys for women. But when it comes to men’s toys,

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