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Help! I’ve never had sex with my husband Q For many reasons (including our religion), my second husband and I decided to have full sex only on our wedding night. But he couldn’t ‘get it up’ and, at th

Q My ex-partner and I loved being kinky. We’d tie each other up, spank each other’s bottoms, and ‘order’ each other to deliver oral sex. So when I met my new man, I was thrilled that he’s into kink to

Q I don’t check my breasts regularly. When my female partner was advised to have a mammogram, I got worried, felt around and, unfortunately, I seem to have a lump. But when I mentioned it to her, she

Q My partner and I are coming up to our 10th anniversary and we’re great together. But very occasionally he’s not in the mood for sex – and then I can’t control the hurt I feel. So far, I’ve been able

Disaster holiday! Q We had a holiday with my son, his wife, her daughters (aged seven and nine) and my son’s 10-year-old son. The children fought constantly and my grandson threw tantrums when his dad

Q We’re celebrating our 30th wedding anniversary next month and, although we don’t make love that often, we’re very happy. But my guest list makes me realise how many of my friends are now in new rela