Ask us anything

Q I’m single, and for ages I’ve had difficulty around sex with new partners. At first, I was just uncomfortable with penetration, but now it’s painful, and I sometimes bleed. My best friend has been r

Help! I don’t follow their sex talk Q My long-time female friends and I often chat about sex. And, recently, one woman said ‘If you want an orgasm, do it like a cat!’. When I asked her what she meant,

Chrimbo Limbo is the perfect time to take stock for the year ahead… If, like me, you’re one of the many women who are better at looking after everyone else than yourself, now may be the ideal time to

LET COUNSELLOR KEREN LIGHTEN YOUR LOAD

Q I’ve been happily using my vibrator since my last relationship ended. But now I’ve met someone new, I’ve put the vibe back in the drawer. So I was shocked to find my partner had found it and was kee

Counsellor Kate Medlin answers your personal, sexual and emotional problems