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Help! I’ve never had sex with my husband Q For many reasons (including our religion), my second husband and I decided to have full sex only on our wedding night. But he couldn’t ‘get it up’ and, at th

Q I don’t check my breasts regularly. When my female partner was advised to have a mammogram, I got worried, felt around and, unfortunately, I seem to have a lump. But when I mentioned it to her, she

Q My ex-partner and I loved being kinky. We’d tie each other up, spank each other’s bottoms, and ‘order’ each other to deliver oral sex. So when I met my new man, I was thrilled that he’s into kink to

Disaster holiday! Q We had a holiday with my son, his wife, her daughters (aged seven and nine) and my son’s 10-year-old son. The children fought constantly and my grandson threw tantrums when his dad

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