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Q My ex-partner and I loved being kinky. We’d tie each other up, spank each other’s bottoms, and ‘order’ each other to deliver oral sex. So when I met my new man, I was thrilled that he’s into kink to

Q I don’t check my breasts regularly. When my female partner was advised to have a mammogram, I got worried, felt around and, unfortunately, I seem to have a lump. But when I mentioned it to her, she

Q My partner and I are coming up to our 10th anniversary and we’re great together. But very occasionally he’s not in the mood for sex – and then I can’t control the hurt I feel. So far, I’ve been able

Disaster holiday! Q We had a holiday with my son, his wife, her daughters (aged seven and nine) and my son’s 10-year-old son. The children fought constantly and my grandson threw tantrums when his dad

How often are you having sex? If you’re a woman over 50, it seems there’s a good chance the answer is not at all. A recent study has found that one in four women aged 50-plus has no interest in sex. S

Q We’re celebrating our 30th wedding anniversary next month and, although we don’t make love that often, we’re very happy. But my guest list makes me realise how many of my friends are now in new rela