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More women in their 40s are saying yes to sex clubs. Ellie Fennell joins the party

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‘The pressure to look young is relentless’

The last time erotica had a moment, Fifty Shades turned bondage into water cooler chat. Now, the genre’s back – only this time, the safe words are spells. But while fans of ‘romantasy’ say the sex is out of this world, what does our collective appetite for so-called ‘faerie smut’ say about the sex we’re really having...or not?