Julian Odessa gives words of wisdom on how to flourish when stitching or in life, encouraging us to strengthen our social connections this year
Hullo! Where I live is a lot warmer than the UK winter, which means I’ve had the joy of watching bees move around my garden, pollinating my produce plants and generally keeping busy. Watching how they work together in their great communities got me thinking about how good it feels to be connected to other people. There’s something magical about coming together with other people, whether it’s your local stitching group, a volunteer position, or making a new friend.
This month, I’ve been challenging myself to do something that connects me with people outside of my normal spheres of interaction. Life is busy, so I didn’t want it to be too demanding, but I sometimes get the feeling that unless I’m purposefully maintaining the borders of my social sphere, my world can start to collapse in and feel smaller. But, like any skill, connection gets better with practice.
I started by, if I had a drive of at least half an hour ahead of me, calling (handset-free!) someone I hadn’t spoken to in a long time. This started when a friend I hadn’t spoken to in almost a decade called me out of the blue just to say hullo – I was so delighted that I thought I’d try it too. Even if we only briefly speak, it’s wonderful to hear about their lives. Another experiment has been to speak to someone at work who I don’t
