The Legend
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There are moments in life when something stops you in your tracks. You are momentarily stunned. This occurred during the Service of Thanksgiving for Sir Stirling Moss back in May. I was privileged to have played my own minor part in what was a remarkable, if belated, send-off for someone I considered a very dear friend. Westminster Abbey was packed, the event having been brilliantly stage-managed by Stirling’s son, Elliott. There were more than 2000 people in the congregation, and I was on hand to do a couple of readings. I must admit that I choked up momentarily. I didn’t see it coming, but it was clearly audible. It was commented upon. I’d had no idea I would be so affected until suddenly I was.
The bit that really left an indelible impression was seeing my youngest boy Sebastian amid the procession at the start. Stirling was something of a grandfather figure; they got on like a house on fire. He walked immediately behind Royalty, carrying Stirling’s old pudding-basin helmet on a cushion, with Damon Hill behind him clutching my boyhood hero’s 1961 Monaco Grand Prix winner’s trophy. I had a lump in my throat watching Sebastian, who handled it all with aplomb and great dignity. He loved Stirling and wanted to honour him accordingly. And he did. I was a proud dad, I don’t mind telling you. It was such an extraordinary day and, it has to be said, a happy one.
I don’t want to delve too deeply into the whole greatest driver debate other than to say that Stirling was surely a candidate. I certainly think he was the most complete driver of his generation, and among the greatest all-rounders. He excelled in everything. He wasn’t ‘just’ a Formula 1 driver. He was masterful in a single-seater but equally so in a sports car, a rally car; whatever. He just had that extra something.
I did all right. Of course, I am happy with what I achieved, but equally I would dearly have loved to have become a benchmark driver like Stirling. We all would. I am just so glad that we became good mates in later life. I miss him still.
After the service, my wife Misti and I hot-footed it to France for one of the Derek Bell Tours with V Events, which saw us take in the Grand Prix de Monaco Historique. I thoroughly enjoyed it. I have a bit of a thing for the venue,