THAT FEELING OF BEING ON THE OUTSIDE, EVEN WHEN YOU’RE WITH EVERYONE? YOU’RE NOT IMAGINING IT – AND IT CAN CHANGE. HERE’S HOW TO GET THE FEELING OF CONNECTION BACK

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LET COUNSELLOR KEREN LIGHTEN YOUR LOAD

When Stacey Keen found herself burnt out and depleted by illness, she knew something had to give – it ended up being her career. But she made big changes to support her health, and now encourages others to do the same.

Taking time out for recovery is key to meeting your goals, so don’t let guilt or anxiety put you off relaxing

Headlines about the hardships of motherhood are rife – and one group of women have been paying close attention. Here, a thirtysomething writer takes a break from her to-do list to hear from those who are burning themselves out to prepare for parenthood