Mum-of-two Anita Naik has been an agony aunt for 32 years
ANITA NAIK
Are they pandering to her mental health?
Q I know it’s common for young people to have mental health problems these days, but I’m worried for my 19-year-old granddaughter. She’s an anxious girl, but I feel my son and his wife pander to her. My son told me she’s dropping out of university, and her GP agrees. I feel this is wrong, but he’s been clear he doesn’t want my input. What can I do?
A In a nutshell, do nothing. Your son and his wife will have a much deeper insight into what’s happening to your granddaughter. While the words anxiety and depression are used a lot these days, there are various levels to them, and both can be severe health conditions. They won’t have taken this decision lightly as it’s been made with medical input. Forget how you feel and support them all.
SEX IS PAINFUL
Q I’ve always had regular sex, but in recent months, sex has become painful. I’ve been hoping it will disappear, but it worsens every time. My husband is understanding, but I don’t want to stop having sex because of this.
A Feeling pain or discomfort during or after sex shouldn’t be ignored. An infection or a physical or psychological problem may be the cause of the pain, and if so, your doctor can help. The menopause’s changing hormone levels may also be behind it, in which case HRT can help. What’s important is to make an app
