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Shermina Mapxencar, 44, found a new direction in life by supporting her community through her local Family Action FOOD Club, after being diagnosed with fibromyalgia.
The community centre doors open and I watch as familiar faces and a few new ones trickle into the FOOD (Food On Our Doorstep) Club. The weekly food boxes are all packed and lined up, ready to be collected. One of our regulars walks over and I ask how she’s doing, but she bursts into tears. We step into the kitchen for a chat over a hot drink, and 10 minutes later she’s back on her feet again. Her problems might not have been solved, but sometimes all people really need is to feel heard and valued. Our FOOD Club is more than just a collection point, it’s a community.
I began volunteering after being diagnosed with fibromyalgia in 2015, which can cause sensitivity to pain, fatigue, stiffness and brain fog, among other symptoms. Due to my illness, I eventually had to give up the teaching career I loved. I began helping out at swimming clubs, reading groups and the Scouts, as they were more flexible than full-time teaching. I’d also been interested in volunteering at food banks because, despite my illness, I felt lucky in other ways. I didn’t have to worry about providing basic necessities for my family, for example, but I knew this wasn’t the case for everyone.
So, since 2020, I’ve been volunteering at the Family Action FOOD Club in Mansfield, which I now run. Each Thursday, we receive deliveries through a company that collects excess food from supermarkets such as Co-op, Tesco and Waitrose & Partners. Every delivery is different, with a range of fruit, vegetables, meat, yogurts, cheese and perhaps mashed potato or Indian snack selections. We sort all of the items into up to 40 boxes, providing a mix of fresh and tinned or longer-life food, which can work together as meals. We also cater for vegetarian and vegan diets with plant-based products, and run a shop selling extra items at low prices.
On Fridays at 10am, we open the doors for members to collect their weekly box, which costs them £3.50 to £4 but is worth about £10 to £15. Any locals who need support can sign up with a short form, telling us their details and any dietary requirements. We don’t ask questions or for proof of circumstances. Our members are people of all backgrounds: grandparents, teachers, pregnant mums, people with health difficulties, nurses. Some people come just the once or every now and then, while others are regulars we see weekly.
