Mum-of-two Anita Naik has been an agony aunt for 31 years
I don’t think his son is his child Q I have a strong suspicion that my son’s child isn’t his. It’s not just the way this boy looks, but personality-wise, he seems nothing like my son. I don’t get on with my daughter-in-law and know my son adores his child, so I want to be careful. My grandson is now three years old and I have only seen him twice, but I see a lot of the videos that my son posts online. Do I tell him or keep out of it?
A Telling someone you don’t think their child is biologically theirs is a hazardous conversation. Before you say anything, think about why you want to share this suspicion. Having only met your grandchild twice, you don’t know them, and your son adores him. So why would you want to destroy this relationship? Please be careful what you do next.
SHE IS BEING BULLIED AT WORK
Q My daughter is 25 and is being bullied at work by her manager. She comes home in tears, telling me this woman shouts at her in front of others, says spiteful things about her in meetings and spreads horrible gossip about my daughter via WhatsApp. What can we do? My daughter worked hard for this job.
A Bullying in the workplace can be a serious problem that affects your mental and physical wellbeing. With so many witnesses and evidence
